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Today has got to be the worst night/morning of my life thus far.

We got tailed by a police officer. Me, my friend and my sister. We were trying to catch a late night movie. The stupid police officer was following us and stopped us. I asked him why was he stopping me and he started getting an attitude he starts flashing his dumb flashlight in my face I asked him to stop flashing it in my face and hes just like " yep yep yep" like a complete FOOL, (he didnt even answer why he stopped me), he starts stuttering, talking about " oh your registration is revoked and you don't have insurance" this &^$#@!  just made that ^%$#@ up. He  took the registration and my license and had us waiting in the car for like 20 minutes...all of a sudden a tow truck comes up...like WTH? We were talking to him asking him why he would have us waiting in the car for 20-30 minutes, not tell us whats going on and all of a sudden a tow truck is coming to tow the car? He was being MAD RUDE right from the beginning  and didn't even give me back my information till I asked for it and I snatched it right out of his hand. He started screaming at my sister ( that one doesn't waste time, she went in the car and slammed the door in his face,he deserved what he got) and starts yelling: oh you don't like the way I conduct myself, the guy was an idiot, he didn't have answers to any of the questions we were asking him, I told him : you think I didnt see you following me all this time? He said " yea, I stopped you because of your registration" at this point im HOT. If this car is towed, my mother is paying  to get it out, money she could use for other things. That officer pissed me off so badly. I told him he was a sorry excuse for an officer and kept walking.  Maybe It seems strange for me to say this mainly because I was born and raised in this "great" ( and equally stupid) country but at this point, I HATE this country, I HATE the justice system, I HATE how things are run here and I HATE  police officers. I see why the justice system in this country has and will continue to fail over and over again. I cant wait to pack my bags and move to some island where everything is sunny and police officers aren't constantly harrassing people. No body said life was going to be easy, but like damn, does it mean I have to get harrassed because of the color of my skin? I KNOW that police officer was profiling no doubt about it. He saw three black people in a car, the driver wasnt speeding and he targets the car. Its happened in this country time and time again. You cant trust no body, especially the police, there are just as horrible as the criminals. A 16 yr old girl in NYC almost got raped by 8 "MEN", a police officer was right there, and did nothing. Mannn some cops are just snakes, just because they are in a uniform with a gun doesnt = good, and it damn sure doesn't mean they are there to help/protect you.

Something has got to give....police officers cant be abusing their power. Its kind of funny how this whole law enforcement thing works here in the good ol' U.S.A...and I'm really starting to resent this country, I laugh sometimes when my  family members want to all run here(maybe life will be better for them here who knows?), run here for what?work, work work till u die, pay pills till u die,all for what? what is really here?? other than a few key things whats left here? abeg, that cant be me. I cant die, because i'm contributing to an economy...'

The State police, will most DEFINATELY be hearing from me this morning, no doubt about it...not like they will do anything anyway because the way they run things in this country is backwards, they all have their brains in their behinds ( i know people in other countries have it worse, but im just saying though..)

im not in any mood for bashing/jumpin down my throat so if u feel like doing so dont post


on the terrorist piece: i will and always will maintain my sense of pride as a Nigerian, my pride can never falter.

I'm off this

Xmas/the Naija terrorist

A Nigerian terrorist? Na wa o, after 419/scamming and the stigma of being criminals, we wan com add terrorists join am?  My aunt and mother were practically going crazy last night watching cnn--"no no, he cant be a Nigerian, maybe its a mistake oo!! maybe he's lying about being a Nigerian" lmao. Well its not funny but I mean lets be real here. They obviously checked his passport first and hes a confirmed Nigerian, plus they even interviewed his dad who's a chairman of the First Bank of Nigeria. Like wow, only thing I could think of was they wont be giving out no more visas to Nigerians anymore...smh... :)

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They have some  GOOD quality wigs/weave...like brazilian,malaysian etc...

Christmas wasnt that great but I'm grateful. Next yr will be better

Still havent done my essays for my applications/i hope I get into a school thats farrrr

Yea I got nothin to "gist" about so I'm off!!

I want to be talentless,gorgeous,and dumb, a BAD B!%^&

I'm simply FED up with the media, I'm fed up with talentless, oversexed,half naked,empty headed "celebrities" like melissa ford, rihanna, lil kim,trina,angel lola and the rest of them,( call it 'hating" i dont care, thats ur problem) who young girls are constantly emulating and idolizing. People lets wake the HELL up. Everything that glitters is NOT gold...we dont have to give into idealizations from a stupid rap video or a magazine. We are more than the lustful stares of men trying to get a piece of us ...we complain that men are this and that--well if you want a man to respect you, teach him how to. If you let him know its ok to grab you anyhow or make comments about u anyway he wants, then that sets the stage. That sets the stage for him to act anyway he wants and he will continue to do so until u decide when the curtain closes... lets start something new in 2010, lets CLASS it up, and settle for nothing but the best.




When I grow up, I want to be that BAD BITCH.

That BAD BITCH that sells her soul for the money,power and fame

The BAD BITCH that drops her clothes for the magazines and the internet, yet turns around to say how much of role model I am to young girls

The BAD BITCH in the club shaking my ass to plies and akon

The BAD BITCH who fantasizes about trey songs, telling my friends the things I would like to do to him

I want to be that self absorbed BITCH that vain BITCH

I want to be the BAD BITCH who cant stand on her own two, I want to be that BITCH that needs male attention every morning,afternoon and night

I want to be the BADDEST BITCH in the room with my breasts out and my dress 3 sizes too tight

I want to be the BAD bitch that collects 10 numbers on any given night.


I want to be the BAD BITCH who thinks the only good thing about me is my beauty , I want to use my beauty to get ahead in life.

I want to be the BAD BITCH who is well versed in ignorant hip hop music than in Shakespeare

I want to be the BAD BITCH who giggles and plays coy when a guy tells me I have a 'bangin body and a cute ass face"

The BAD BITCH who takes revealing pictures n posts 'em on the net.

I want to be the BAD BITCH who lets men use me like a toy for the night

The BAD BITCH whos the freak of the week and in everybody's sheets.


I want to be a selfish BITCH, I want everything that money can buy; the prada,gucci, the chanel.

I want to stay BLINGED up with the finest gold and diamonds.

I want to be a baby momma before the age of 25, with 3 or 5 kids and sit on my ass, still wishing I can be the main video chick shakin my ass in a 50 cent video while I reap the benefits of the government.


I want my 5 minutes of fame, setting my pride aside will get me to the top

I want to hide behind the 20 inch weave that still looks jacked up even if I got a perm.

I want to wear a mask;the mascara layered on thick, the foundation caked on my face

I want to use the vision of my 'loveliness to make up for the stimulating/intelligent conversations I have yet to engage in.


BAD BITCHES get MONEY, by any means neccessary. I want to be that BITCH.

BAD BITCHES dont care who they offend.

BAD BITCHES stay fly
BAD BITCHES turn heads.

BAD BITCHES club like their life depended on it
BAD BITCHES dont need education, they got their beauty and their bodies to get them through

BAD BITCHES pay into the media hype.



I grew up, and I became THAT BAD BITCH. the BAD BITCH that I always imagined.

I got my prada and gucci
I got my 5 kids with 5 different men
I got the 5 minutes of fame
got my bling, I even got to shake my ass in that rap video

still didnt get my high school diploma, but I'm here, still living,striving n survivin...still ignorant.still empty headed and oversexed.

Nobody told me it was going to be so bittersweet.

and so here i am, that BAD BITCH.

red/silver aso ebi

I saw these on bellanaija a loooonnng time ago but i LOVE the combination of colors (as in this is on a kentro level) and the styles most of the women had on...

LUST LIST

Rebecca Minkoff passion python clutch


Double stone Turquoise ring, Gara Danielle.shopbop.com
Erickson Beamon Medieval Swarovoski drop earrings net-a-porter.com

I've been discovered!

So my cousin has discovered my blog! I knew I should have made it private lmao. Sh!t.

Hes so sneaky, so he must hv known about it all this while and he never said anything. note to self: clear all blogger windows on computer!!

Neefemi, I guess this is a good time to let you know, that it was my cousin(i.oputa) that told me about your blog and that I should read it. It was kind of funny at first because of they way he mentioned it to me...then he went on to say I had some 'interesting stuff on there'. I'm thinking about all the things Ive writen on here but the more I think about it the more I'm going to get em-barazzed lmao. Oh well, no sweat right. Hes like another brother to me so its not like the things I've said on here I havent said them to him in person....but the way I'm panicking(secretly lol) you would have thought olu discovered it!!!


I know ur reading this!!! Its okay ehn, wait make u no worry,I will be doing my detective work on you... ur eye go neat :)


Semester is finally over with, now its time to write some essays for these schools. I got one BIG reality check on friday, went to my advisor and he told me I need to get my gpa higher or stay at my current school for another full semester ( mba!) so next semester its all work no play. All these schools I want to apply to are all top tier schools...which means they require like 3.7s and higher....

still not into the whole xmas thing, ill just go to midnight mass and go home same with new yrs...im not up for anything at all at alll


I'm off this, its been a long day my cousin turned 8 yesterday so we had a big dinner for her today...the moi moi,jellof rice,meat pie,african salad,plantain,turkey,chicken and cake was too mush haha...my cuzzo came with her oyinbo bf...one auntie goes "haa, u couldnt find a Nigerian boy, there plenty out there. If you get married to him dont invite me o! "



yea 'stale' gist, but what can i say.. I feel like i have to watch wat i say on here from here on out! smh!!

btw, mouth of naija, where is part deux? I'm waiting...oya write am fast fast lol

blaH...

Some random stuff...

1. The Jersey shore is one stupid show, but i like watching it sha, I can understand why italians are angry about it...haa just imagine them doing one about Nigerians 'little lagos' some stupid somethin like that...naija ppl go protest am soteyy lmao.


2. I noticed a lot of Nigerians claiming to be naija-american even though they were born in Nigeria, I'm still trying to figure out how that makes sense. Be proud of who you are/what you represent...smdh


3.. 09 was full of scandals..na wa o...from tiger woods to that gov. of ny...u see a pattern here dont you? ( cough*they both cheated* cough) whats up with all these politians cheating on their wives


4. Moral standards have completely and utterly gone out the window... its completely normal to sleep/hook up with someone you met only 3 hrs ago ...


5. Lagos is number 7 on the largest cities in the world list... 13mil or so...i thought Lagos had more then that...then you got Ny with like 16mil...last time i checked it was 8mil!

6. Enough of the horrible yankee accents...my friends brother: " hay shawree (shawty), warra (wanna)go to de bech (beach)? wor d heck? see ihn mouth like bech


7. My cousin has a bad mouth sha, she was over at our aunts house ( in Germany or Holland idk) and my aunts husband says 'oh its nice you have 3 kids, me and so and so have been trying to have some of our own....dear cousin proceeds to tell hubby 'well if your wife didnt have so many abortions maybe it would be easier for her to get pregnant'... smdh

8.

" whats my concern, thats u peoples own fuckin business if u dont know who they r thats on ya head" - my friend's mother, when she asked her mom who her god parents were ... lmao :)

9. Does it make sense for someone to preach to me about God, then tell me 'oh well if your going to have sex then be safe' na una sabi, cuz me sef im confused...thats just odd.

10. Miami or London??