I've got so much to say

Its been a while since I last blogged and I've got lots of things to lay down for you ppl here on blogger. I been so caught up with the Haiti earthquake diaster and the relief efforts so I havent been on here much, plus I been doing lots of reading :) I've started school and everything...I'm taking 5 classes, and I dont have classes on Friday, which means one or two things: catch up on sleep, or catch up on homework, maybe even  hit the gym... Yea my mother signed me up for the gym, I'm not really getting fat but, I'm wat you would call "skinny-thick" I tend to pack on pounds around my hips/thighs/butt area ( pear shape, I suppose) and I'm trying to slim down a few, you know get the waist tiny again and all that good stuff.




 during  winter break, myself, my sister and two of my 'infamous' family friends that ive mentioned on here plus 10 or 11 girls booked a limo to a club in the next city over from ours, and I'm tellin u ppl we were like a hot commodity( no black girls dey for there or what??)...everyone in there was spanish, as in puerto rican/dominican who knows? but out of all the girls who went we were the only black girls the rest were spanish or mixed with something im not sure...it was a funny yet boring night at the club sha...ppl were dancing as if they were either having a seizure or like dogs having sex...like lmao its not that serious..i can go clubbin once in a while but u ppl wey dey go every every weekend...i bow for una...sheitt mehn...lol

one quick little msge :MOUTH OF NAIJA: where is the rest of the series on ur trip to Naija? i may not have been posting regularly but ive been lurking around here n there...oya produce the series fast fast!! lol

I'm excited for the upcoming semester, only about 4 months left( yea I start counting the FIRST day of classes). The only thing that is going to be taking up most of my time is A & P..hmm and no be say i wan do medicine oo, dem no send me! Well ok-- maybe I have been thinking of doing medicine but im really not sure, I dont know if I can take on science and math and do well with it so I'm going to test the waters and see what happens...ever heard of anyone doing law and medicine? abi i wan run madddd??!

Leksai ( formerly known as olu) is a very stupid person indeed. We have started talking again ( as friends, because after reading all those christian books I've decided hes definately NOT the kind of guy I need in my life)and he told me some things that made me QUITE uncomfortable. He told me that while we 'werent together' during the naija indy parade he got 'intimate' with some girls, then he goes on to later say that it was only one girl ( what a loser). 

him: I was intimate with some girls during the naija indy parade

me: Yea I know, I had my suspicions, but I just didnt want to say anything. I'm not stupid. You were talking to some chick on the phone at like 8 in the a.m. now dont tell me that was one of your boys...

him; *stuttering and stammering* how how did you know?

me: I just did, when do u think I was born? plus, thats what ppl who really have no morals do, they hook up with ppl they dont even know and the naija indy parties is the best time to do stuff like that...

* he really had the audacity to be mad at me, because I knew about it all this time and didnt tell him* lwkmd! i hope he rly wasnt serious 


me: what do you mean by intimiate? sex or...??

him: well umm....I mean its whatever u want it to mean. It didnt work out so I ended it with her...( yea sure)
me: why cant you just come out and say it. Say you had sex with the girl or girls...

*silence*

him: do you hate me now?

me: I've definately lost respect for you, because you are just like every other guy, you have no self control either...then you open ur mouth and say you have respect for women...yea right. I cant be mad at you either since you said we werent together, yet when I confronted you about the train situation you were arguing about the fact that we were still together during that time ( naija indy parade) and it was  honest of you to tell me, you could have hidden the fact...if u did it because of sex, then look at all ur past relationships...you've had sex with all your girlfriends and not ONE of your relationships really lasted...so that goes to show, that sex doesnt even make relationships better, they do more harm then good. I DONT GET WHY SOME GUYS CAN USE A GIRL ( HAVE SEX WITH HER) AND DISCARD HER LIKE A PIECE OF TRASH...IF THAT WAS YOUR OWN SISTER NKO? WHAT WILL YOU DO? JUST BECAUSE A GIRL presents her self as trashy,classless etc doesnt mean its an  opportunity to 'score'....

him: blah blah blah ( i cant hear him because i pulled the phone away from my ear so i couldnt hear him lmao)

*silence*

him: do you want me to come for valentine's day?

me: No, you don't have to come at all. Stay where you are.

him: You know during that time, you were all I could think about, I think about you all the time...I still look at your pictures...

me: oh, thats nice.

-we started talking about something else and somehow this convo started:-

him: do you want me to introduce you to a friend of mine? ( hes SOOO manipulative and insecure)

me: ummm...no? why?

him: because im sure you would want him instead of me

me: who said I want you or your friend?

him: ok, nevermind.

me: yea, nevermind is correct, who sent you msg anyway?

* awkward silence for about 5 1/2 minutes lol*

we had another convo that went like this:

him: my friends all think I had sex with you

me: did you tell them that we didnt?

him: I just keep quiet,if they assume then thats their problem, what happens behind closed doors is my buisiness.

me: why cant you just say : no,  i didnt have sex with her?

him: they would kind of be looking at me in a weird way, like im 'weak' they would say '"common man, you had her in your room and you didnt do anything?" and they would look at you the same way...

me: you and your friends have a very messed up, immature, highschool mentality...are relationships all about sex? why cant  you be different from your friends?

him: well yea, your suppose to have sex with your girlfriend....my friends know me and they know what I can do, they know that once I have a girl in my room that anything can happen... ( eww...he comes off as a male-whore)

me: interesting...i hope you dont expect some other guy to treat your sisters with respect..

* that statement set him OFF...lmao so he starts going on and on blah blah im really not even listening to him anyway...he never makes any sense and my comebacks always make more sense...and they often make him look stupid lmao*

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we get to talking about other stupid irrelevant things and he feels all weird now because of what he told me, im watching a movie so im not really paying him any attention...I'm really over the whole thing..the convo soon ended and i knocked out..but a  guy like that cant be trusted even in marriage, what happens if his wife has to go away on a buisness trip for a week? or what happens after she has a baby and cant have sex for a couple of weeks? What will he do? masturbate? or sleep with a co-worker?? I mean NA WA  for guys like him o, -smdh-me I cant deal with that...its not my portion jo.Its very simple: why should i give you my body when you havent made a commitment to me i.e marriage?

 ...he somehow acts like im lucky to be with him lmao pshhhh...like i cant do better? watch me!! 

You know, now I finally realize why hes been asking me who the guys are that Ive been talking to, its because hes been talking to other girls...hmmm so ppl who are 'cheating' always accuse or assume their partners of cheating as well...because of the guilt they are feeling...I feel like cursing him, but let me not waste my time/breathe. I knew it was a mistake even talking to his stupid self. 

Anyway this semester i really cant be talking and socializing...most of my classes require LOTS of work online and as well as the classroom, I'm going to be really busy. I need to get my credits so I can get movin this fall...una know say i wan transfer next semester shey?! I feel like college is an undercover scam...they make you pay insane amounts of money for a txtbook that will probably be of no use to you later in life, then you have to take out loans which you cant pay back not even in your life time. But hey, what can we do...education helps a lot but this my friends, is orchastrating a SCAM...they can say what they want about Nigeria..but Americans scam the living hell out of its own citizens and non-citizens alike just as much...they are just scammers with suits,ties and brief cases as far as I'm concerned!

I got a juicer too btw, I will now be juicing all my fruits and veggies for 'maximum health' lol.

The snow over here wants to kill me. Snow today, tommorow the sun is shining, then' next tommorow' (lol) the wind is blowing. That is why florida is calling my name...I shall be back there soon...all my friends down there are in total enjoyment..as in theres is on a kentro level...confammeddd!! lmao ( my new word..got it from dj zeez lmao). 

----I know I'm all over the place but I told you ppl in my title : I've got so much to say!!!----

So a couple of days ago, I went to my friends place, and after I left I got a call from one razz kenyan boy I used to work with, one yeye guy like that...I picked up and asked him what he was calling me for, turns out I accidentally called him ( my phone is mad) so we were talking and he asked me if i was going back to school and this and that blah blah...and he then told me he was in an accident with another stupid guy i used to go to school with and work with...if u hear this guys accent ehn? like omgoodness...he makes this horrible attempt to sound somewhat 'american' if thats what u would call it but this guy gets an f++++++...as in i just want to say: " worra heck!! shurrruuupp!!! the noise coming from that hole in your face is irritating...abeg carry ur yeye accent go dat side"...shietttt..him and his headband and basketball shorts...who wears basketball shorts in january?.so the kenyan dude asked if i was coming to see them...i said ok, so i got to the hospital and these two fools were acting as if i begged them to come to that stupid hospital...I came to see if you ppl were ok, me i didnt send u ppl msge to start driving around the whole city because u ppl have nothing berra to do ( especially when u dont go to school and have free time on ur hands 24/7) the kenyan guy was making it worse because he was insinuating that me and the naija guy were "lovers" ( his words not mine )because we used to 'talk'...lmao...we never talked. I dont even like the guy....anyway i kuku got to my feet and left their sorry selfs there and went home...i still havent gotten around to txting that kenyan guy and giving him the verbal abuse of his life...ode.

Things really are looking up,and Ill be busy for the next couple of months:

from march thru august then september and december...

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 im off this yooooooooo




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