I'm going to an arranged marriage ceremony today, well the traditional marriage for an igbo couple.
Its arranged in an extremely weird way. The grooms mother wants her son to marry this girl so she can put him through law school (shes a nurse prac.) and then she said ' they will find him his real wife after she pays his law school off.'she was telling someone that 'she has to do what she has to do' (wow) I also heard stories about the grooms mother saying the girl was lazy because she can't cook ( and I don't think being born n raised in America is an excuse) and that she was questioning her future-in laws about the upbringing of their daughter...its like one big fiasco and the whole state is going to be there just to be nosy, you guys know how Nigerians are...and for some reason, I'm feeling sorry for the bride, its almost as everyone is going just to get a good laugh in....
*will definitely update on what happens @ the wedding.
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Wow thats deep! Doesn't the girl know she is being used. Besides when she gets pregnant whats now going to happen, is the mother in law going to refuse the baby?
ReplyDeleteThe girl shouldn't send him to school jare, biggest mistake ever!!
Oh wow...that's crazy and sad at the same time...smh...wat a shame!
ReplyDeleteLol it happens and sometimes it works ooo...
ReplyDeleteThat's mean...
ReplyDeletewahala dey'
ReplyDeleteLol...Does the girl she's being used?
ReplyDelete@rubies, the girl doesnt really know..i dont think...but im hoping they really fall in love!!
ReplyDelete@blessing,i was shocked too
@2cute, ur right sometimes it works, but these circumstances r different lol!
@parakeet, its mean but everyone is turning the other cheek
@LG, for sure! wahala full ground
@zel, nope!!! shes going thru with it!!
damn see wahala. MILs are something else
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