Today ( or should I say yesterday) was quite a Sunday. Went to church, I went to see a french play ( for class!!) and went to a Nigerian organization meeting thingy. It was actually fun, Nigerian adults arent as intimidating as they look, really funny actually. Anyway my uncle asked me to pick up his friend from Nigeria at the train station and on the way we ( me and my sister) got into an accident, it was actually a 3 person accident. The front of my uncles car got MESSED up but we were ok, my sister is pretty tall ( 6'3) so her knees went right into the dashboard, i didnt hit anything but it was sort of scary and the breaks sort of failed me too. Well the officer said we could still make it to the station so we went and got my uncles friend and went to the ER afterwards, my sister got crutches and we left before it was my turn, they were taking long, but now I wish I stayed because I'm sort of feeling the after effects of this whole thing. Im really not trying to sound like a bible pusher or anything but I really do thank God that it wasnt serious, lots of kids lose their lives to car accidents so Im truly grateful.My brother and cousin called my sister to ask if she was ok, umm hello? i b chop liver abi? and when my sister called my mother to tell her what happened ( she was still at the meeting) everyone flew into a panic and a nice ( and cute!! hehe) young man who goes to the meetings wanted my number to call and see if we were ok, hmmm I thought maybe he just wanted my number maybe because I'm seggzyy ( lol. i kid) but he was sincere about it and i appreciated that. He called but I was getting all these calls that I missed his. I texted him though. I'm grateful for people like him. Im also grateful for people who will jump out of their cars just to help you push yours to a gas station in the cold ( yea it happened on the way to the hospital smh) People like that give me hope that not all people are cold hearted. Hmmm which leads me to my list for what I look for in a mate lol, its quite random but hey I cant help it.
Here it goes:
-generous
-kind
-doesnt have wandering eyes
-Christian
-honest
-easy going
-demonstrates SELF CONTROL
-sees past body parts and loves me for my personality
-doesnt see women has sexual objects
-Intelligent
-knows how to manage his anger
- spoils me :)
thats all for now really, Im tired.
im off
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no man comes a complete package. so before u go waiting on the complete profile u have down.......... u mite wanna ......... watever. take care.
ReplyDeletelol, yea i know...but i cant wait be sitting here wating, im a woman on the move! Im trying to stay focused on other things as of now lol
ReplyDeleteThank God it wasn't that bad, wow. Accidents are so scary. I just got my licence here and each time I drive, I say a little prayer.
ReplyDeleteI like your list, not too demanding. But people rarely fall into lists so keep your eyes open too.
Oh wow! I'm glad you all are ok. Man! And no you are not a bible pusher for thanking God, lol, come on! Not like you gave us a scripture and started preaching, lol.
ReplyDeleteLove the list! You had me laughing when you said 'wandering eyes'. I was like "yup! I so agree with ya girl!" Such a turn off. Do me a favor, check out my girl's post, she just did this awesome list of Romance 102. When I saw your mini list I was like, "Damsel needs to read this...."
http://ync-chill-lounge.blogspot.com/
Have an awesome Thanksgiving! Don't eat too much sweetie! Lol.
@ myne yea I know, it could hv been much worse and we still drove it to the station...and ppl dont fall into lists but there r one or two that are a must oh! @ ladya, yup wandering eyes is a big one, my eyes dont wander so urs shouldnt either! yea i checked out yncs first post about romance, let me check out the next one thanks...!! have a great thanksgiving as well!
ReplyDeleteMore or less the same characteristics I look for in a guy. Patience is another thing I would add though.
ReplyDeleteThank God for the good people out there.