Thanksgiving was nice and I'm thankful for soo many things...
We had turkey ( of course) moi moi, jellof rice,banga soup/fufu,meat pie, cornbread, baked mac and cheese and Nigerian style salad...my cousin brought apple pie and drinks...shes so Americanized its not even funny lmao, she came with her childhood friend and her boyfriend who's white, hes a cool dude sha...hes funny, likes kids, good job....my aunt was even wondering when he was going to ask him to marry her lol, then she proceeded to ask her friend where her boyfriend was!!! Shes living with this guy, probably sleeping with him too ( like i really wanna know if this is true!)and they've been together for over a year,( i think 2 or 3 yrs) and shes in her late twenties and so is he, haa if she wants to get married then she berra do so oh, but i dont think moving in together is a good idea, i think it breaks up couples faster and then they dont make it down the isle, but hey im just a kid what do i know?!!
By 5:30-6 we started eating, by 8:00 everyone was gone, and I even forgot that I invited one of my friends, shes from Cameroon, and she really doesnt have much family here , so I kuku txt am tell am say make she begin dey get ready make i pick am up lera.I was tired and told her I would bring her food instead ( yea thats mean I know! ) and I met up with her and brought her food and drinks and she was telling me what the guy she used to go out with was doing, how he was talking to another girl ( but her later deleted her number) and this is the same guy who threw her out in the summer and even called the police, put her thru hell. The guy is really nice despite all that, but it had me thinking: Girls put up with a lot from guys, I mean we take so much shit from them and we say that we are going to do this and that and tell him this, that and the other thing but we never follow thru, we allow ourselves to be used and we go thru soo much for no reason, its really sad actually because its pretty safe to say that many guys wouldnt put up with a lot, then take the same person whos been giving them hell back...
Its time for women to stop putting up with so much sh.it, and making excuses for why men are the way they are and why they do the things they do. I cant shout.
Happy Thanksgiving ( If ur celebrating it)
td
Damsel.
ReplyDeleteSome girls deserve wat they get from guys o..
Women this days be walkin around as if shit doesn't come out from their buttocks. It' never dat serious o
lol the nice girls dont deserve it...the wicked ones do ;-)
ReplyDeleteNice write up and happy thanksgiving to you.
ReplyDeleteYou say a BF put your friend thru police and was talking to another girl and she took him back?
myne, yup!! it was over the summer and she called me to help her move her stuff, the police man was pissed but the police woman was symapthetic...so now they are in the process of getting back together...and he was talking to another girl but he erased her number now...
ReplyDeleteHappy Thanksgiving to you as well!!
ReplyDeleteso, imma summarize some tots of mine, from skimming all of ur blog posts.
ReplyDeletewow, I like ur pidgin, dint even know uve not been naija per se. also, I admire ur interest in visiting Naija and knowing stuffs about where u're from. How was the Indy-parade? I went too, but dint go for the after-party. I'm trying to transfer for fall '10 too. still piling up them schls but those essays do nnot loook friendly.
ps: Im going to Naija in '10 summer. not first time, cos I was born and grew up. but I'm excited too, it's been a while