Friday, July 30, 2010
Monday, July 19, 2010
A 'confammed 'babe
A confammmed babe:
1.is always confident in everything she does
2. is effortlessly chic
3. knows she deserves a good man, and doesn't settle for less.
4. embodies the term 'classy', not the counterfeit version.
5. Uses more than her body/face to command attention.
6. Knows her worth.
7. Grows spiritually every day
8.is a vision of loveliness
Friday, July 16, 2010
Hello DC
I've decided on DC, really wish I could have gone back to Miami.
Ill see how it goes and see if I like it. If I do, I'll stay, if not Miami it is.
Hopefully I can meet with bloggers in the DMV area, any blogger who lives out there could you please recommend:
a church
african market/store
best places to shop
a good hospital
I still haven't gotten a job, I only have a month left because classes start next month. I'll be shopping like crazy over the next few weeks though despite my financial drought. Ive already gotten my suitcase packed with a few things. I want to drive down there ( If I get a car) but thinking about the drive just makes me want to take the train.
thanks in advance.
btw, I need a way to let lekan know that it won't work out between us...any suggestions? I mean hes already calling my mom his mother in-law...I'm not ready for that!
Ill see how it goes and see if I like it. If I do, I'll stay, if not Miami it is.
Hopefully I can meet with bloggers in the DMV area, any blogger who lives out there could you please recommend:
a church
african market/store
best places to shop
a good hospital
I still haven't gotten a job, I only have a month left because classes start next month. I'll be shopping like crazy over the next few weeks though despite my financial drought. Ive already gotten my suitcase packed with a few things. I want to drive down there ( If I get a car) but thinking about the drive just makes me want to take the train.
thanks in advance.
btw, I need a way to let lekan know that it won't work out between us...any suggestions? I mean hes already calling my mom his mother in-law...I'm not ready for that!
Sunday, July 11, 2010
Weekend of ' I love you' and cheeseburgers
Olu ( better known as Lekan,read about him here, ) is back in the picture.Not necessarily because I let him back in, and not because I wanted/needed him back in. He was at this cookout I was at this past weekend. He called me ( yes, we still keep in contact, well just recently) and said he was coming there( from another state though) and this other guy that I started talking to texted me and told me he was going to be there as well. Ha, see me see trouble.
*note :this cookout was public for a specific age group and it was thrown by Nigerians.So it wasnt like it was some random cookout that I happen to see mr. lekan at. I can't give out too many details otherwise someone else will find out exactly whos behind this computer!
*Fast forward to 5:30pm*
Me, my sister,brother,friend, her brother and my cousin get to the cookout. Lekan is calling me off the hook, and texting me even AFTER I picked up his call before I left for the cookout and told him I would call him back.
Lekan was texting me as soon as I reached so we could meet up.
We went for a walk and he started pouring his heart out about how he wanted 'us' to work and how he wanted us to get married in 2/3 years time and that he was going propose real soon. O boy, come see love nwantinti. I didn't know what to make of all that he said. I had been trying to get over him, and here he was telling me he's missed me, and wanted to make things work out. In the middle of the conversation he said ' I love you'. He said it before but this time it was face to face which equals 'awkward moment'. He was being really affectionate which I really don't like ( in public that is) and calling me 'baby' which I don't like either ( yup, im not fit for a relationship) He basically took up all my time at the cookout, so I didn't really get to talk to other people apart from the times I would leave and talk to 'the guy' I've been talking to, and when I left Lekan was calling me telling me to come back to where he was sitting ( talk about possessive)....We left around 9:30 and I was off to go drop off my friend &sister at school. I'm really in a dilemma oh, I'm leaving for school next month and I don't want to be tied down to anyone. Living single is the name of my game!
Marriage is cool and everything but when I think of getting married, I get scared that I won't be 'free' to do as I please. I can't travel the world or do missionary work, I can't stay over family or friends houses for weeks at a time...there so many no-go areas when it comes to marriage. I don't know why he's now coming out and saying all of this. He says he'll fight off any other guy if theres any of them thats chasing me. I just laughed at that statement because there were about 2 or 3 other guys that were trying to talk to me at that cookout...thankfully none of them approached me while I was with him. I don't know why hes forcing the issue of 'boyfriend, girlfriend and marriage. I told him I wanted to date other people for 3-4 other years, and he said 'no, I want you for myself', I don't want any other guy with you ( as in sleeping with me, and I'm still a virgin) this made me laugh, because I can remember him saying that he didn't care whether or not I was one, and he wouldn't have minded if I was one of those girls who slept around either & now he wants to marry me, who hasn't been touched. Guys are funny. I think I'll stay single thank you very much...
*note :this cookout was public for a specific age group and it was thrown by Nigerians.So it wasnt like it was some random cookout that I happen to see mr. lekan at. I can't give out too many details otherwise someone else will find out exactly whos behind this computer!
*Fast forward to 5:30pm*
Me, my sister,brother,friend, her brother and my cousin get to the cookout. Lekan is calling me off the hook, and texting me even AFTER I picked up his call before I left for the cookout and told him I would call him back.
Lekan was texting me as soon as I reached so we could meet up.
We went for a walk and he started pouring his heart out about how he wanted 'us' to work and how he wanted us to get married in 2/3 years time and that he was going propose real soon. O boy, come see love nwantinti. I didn't know what to make of all that he said. I had been trying to get over him, and here he was telling me he's missed me, and wanted to make things work out. In the middle of the conversation he said ' I love you'. He said it before but this time it was face to face which equals 'awkward moment'. He was being really affectionate which I really don't like ( in public that is) and calling me 'baby' which I don't like either ( yup, im not fit for a relationship) He basically took up all my time at the cookout, so I didn't really get to talk to other people apart from the times I would leave and talk to 'the guy' I've been talking to, and when I left Lekan was calling me telling me to come back to where he was sitting ( talk about possessive)....We left around 9:30 and I was off to go drop off my friend &sister at school. I'm really in a dilemma oh, I'm leaving for school next month and I don't want to be tied down to anyone. Living single is the name of my game!
Marriage is cool and everything but when I think of getting married, I get scared that I won't be 'free' to do as I please. I can't travel the world or do missionary work, I can't stay over family or friends houses for weeks at a time...there so many no-go areas when it comes to marriage. I don't know why he's now coming out and saying all of this. He says he'll fight off any other guy if theres any of them thats chasing me. I just laughed at that statement because there were about 2 or 3 other guys that were trying to talk to me at that cookout...thankfully none of them approached me while I was with him. I don't know why hes forcing the issue of 'boyfriend, girlfriend and marriage. I told him I wanted to date other people for 3-4 other years, and he said 'no, I want you for myself', I don't want any other guy with you ( as in sleeping with me, and I'm still a virgin) this made me laugh, because I can remember him saying that he didn't care whether or not I was one, and he wouldn't have minded if I was one of those girls who slept around either & now he wants to marry me, who hasn't been touched. Guys are funny. I think I'll stay single thank you very much...
Friday, July 9, 2010
Help please!
I need help making a decision.
I got into American University & University of Miami.
I still havent chosen.
American is #84 and UM is #50, I dont really know if those numbers really mean much.
The deadline has already passed to pay the deposit.
I went to DC, and I loved it, it has a college town feel.
I was in Miami in 08 because I was in school there, and I liked it as well, especially the warm weather year round.
I don't know which to pick.
suggestions would be most helpful especially if anyone knows anything about these two schools!!
I got into American University & University of Miami.
I still havent chosen.
American is #84 and UM is #50, I dont really know if those numbers really mean much.
The deadline has already passed to pay the deposit.
I went to DC, and I loved it, it has a college town feel.
I was in Miami in 08 because I was in school there, and I liked it as well, especially the warm weather year round.
I don't know which to pick.
suggestions would be most helpful especially if anyone knows anything about these two schools!!
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